Is it ok. for your significant other to look at other women?

Question:
Is it o.k. for your significant other to look at other women?

Choices:
1. I'm o.k. with it.
2. It is disrespectful
3. Don't think about it either way

 

see. I can not answer this because I think it's ok, if I'm not with him. If I am, then I think it's disrespectful. The answers to the poll are not that cut and dry as yes, no, disrespectful.

I think it's completely ok since, admit it gals, we look too!

Besides, no one ever went to the dog house for looking. It's touching that gets ya in deep doo!

For me it can't be one of the choices, ie-why is he looking, because they are there and he can't help but see them, to think what it would be like to have sex with them, or is he judging something about their appearance. His reason for "looking" would determine my answer.

I think looking is OK, since I find myself checking out a good looking guy when I see one.
What isn't OK is commenting outloud about how good the lookee is, or whistling, or making any
other signals that show he is trying to make you angry. My husband ogles the little honeys on TV, and I just say "go ahead and look, if you got hold of her, she'd wear you out". (He is 68 years old). Men never get tired of using their imaginations, so I say go ahead and look all you want. Just keep your opinions to yourself. I don't want to be held up as a sad comparison to some little chickie (like I used to be).

It is o.k. to "look," not stare, gawk, or remark about the woman. I don't want my husband's tongue hanging out; that is disrespectful. I also do not want to be compared to another women; also disrespectful. A glance is understandable; much beyond that and my husband gets a sharp jab in his side...It's like don't be so stupid to look while I am with you; at least look when I am not around...men!

MY HUSBAND AND I LOOK TOGETHER, HE HAS SUCH DIFFERENT TASTE THAN MINE. BELEIVE ME , WE HAVE SO MUCH FUN COMPARING WHAT HE THINKS IS CUTE AND WHAT I THINK!!HE NEVER LOOKS AT ANY THING BUT THEIR FACE !! THE MORE UNUSUAL THE PRETTIER!!HE HIS NOT A BOMB SHELL GUY!! BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT, I AM HIS NUMBER ONE !!

I know that he does. He's human. It's natural. But if he's really checking them out when I am with him I think it's wrong. My hubby doesn't do that. Which I really appreciate. He'll say something about her if I comment on her or something, like yeah, she was good looking or something along those lines. When he's talking to the guys, well, that's a whole different story. LOL

I do not have to worry about this because I trust my husband. We have been happily married for 15 years.

No matter how long you have been married, it is not a matter of how long or trust. Mem are more visual than women in that department. They ALL look, whether with you or without you there. How long you have been together is moot.

There are attractive people out there. I've noticed a few men myself, and I know what my husband finds attractive in women. I also know that his eyeballs aren't where his mind is, and his mind is on me.

We all are entitled to our opinions, but If you truly are a christian and you have strong beleifs then you will feel the way I do. I guess Maybe someone has hurt you to make you feel that way. I do know my husband and whether he feels the urge to look is not an option in his eyes because him and I are happy. These are his own words because we've had this conversation before.

MY HUSBAND CAN ADMIRE A PRETTY WOMAN/AS I STILL LOOK A A HANDSOME MAN,WE BOTH SAY IT WHEN WE NOTICE A GOOD LOOKING WOMAN & I GOODLOOKING MAN. NO HARM DONE IN OUR CORNER.

BETTY'

its okay with me,after all they are men.
therefor they can look but dont touch.

Well, it depends. If it's just looking that's one thing, but leering is another.

We are all human and it wouldn't be normal if we didn't notice attractive members of the opposite sex.

A truly compassionate and considerate partner would never look or say anything in such a way it would hurt the other partner.